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So i guess we can’t avoid making this personal and judgmental then.
Tatty bye then.
You called everyone ignorant to the reality because they disagree with your chat log.
Get fucked, if you knew the dark places I’ve been due to “this reality” you’d be swallowing those fucking words. I find that genuinely insulting.. And you are being cryptic.. As fuck.
10Addiction exists, Everything is OK in moderation and its down to the individual to change, no one else.
Sometimes, for reasons unknown to myself I will gamble way more than I should, and don’t win. The casino existing makes this possible, but is it their fault? No, it’s mine.
every day I buy a minimum of a four pack from my local shop.. The Indian guy sells them to me everyday sometimes 8 sometimes 16, is it his fault that I have a drinking problem? No, I’m an adult and am making my own bad decisions.
On the flip side there are people who enjoy a drink every now and again and an affordable flutter on the slots and have no negative consequences, does my bad behavior mean they shouldn’t be allowed to enjoy it responsibley? Because it’s availability might fuck people like me up? No. We all need to take responsibility for our actions regardless how painful it is to admit that you and no-one else spent a month’s wages in 20mins or drank so much you blacked out and end up in court. Its still your fault. Its hard to accept your own fuck ups and its so much easier to blame others but we all have them, we all need to take ownership of them. At that point and only that point can you begin to rebuild.
For context I’m an ex drug addict, borderline alcoholic and a compulsive gambler, I understand the beast and I battle it as best I can.
This post hit home with me a lot especially the last paragraph. I’ve not managed to curb any of the three addictions mentioned and at times do lose control of one or more of them.
Only I can change it, there’s help and guidance out there of course but it’s on me to choose not to have the bet or take a swig.
It’s a struggle mate, it really is but the only way is up.. This time last year I was coming off benzos, oxy and Charlie, cutting my drink and expecting a prison sentence.. I’ve now not touched any drugs (except pot) I still drink too much but not way way too much and I’m not going to jail lol.
I found I often swap one addiction for another and go round in circles, in the end I upped and moved cities to change, that and drinking non alcoholic beer helped a lot.. Gambling though I find so much harder as its a very lonely addiction, something friends mostly don’t understand and you do on your own.
If you ever need a chat mate feel free to ask bandit or seedy for my email any time..
00I would apologise for not being the literary scholar expected on this forum but those expecting it are clearly in no position to judge. Now, if this forum doesn’t contain the members to take this debate constructively and without the personal attacks, then maybe it would be just better to leave it as is.
FYI, if you would like me to resort to personal insults, keep on throwing them. If you think you are in a position to dictate who says what and where it is said then I think you should be logged in via either Seedy or Bandits account to do so. My house, my rules policy and all that.
This thread starts with some reality. If you can’t handle that reality, please do walk away. I’m not going to point out again that the CS was NOT being blamed, to people who wish to act like they are intelligent enough to read it the first time, never mind the fifth.
Back to the subject matter ?
Many people don’t know that Shakespear was an alcoholic.
your like a guardian crossword mate. Cryptic as fuck.
Have a look at the thread I posted last night. Youll see some of us don’t just understand the reality. We live in it.
20Hope you have a good one mate. And i pray Pool smash Spurs.
Im moving house tomorrow. Going to a nice little cottage. Its awesome. My cats are getting their running wheel delivered too
Got a few mates helping me out and off to a beer garden after if the weather stays nice.
Happy days man, good luck with the move! as soon as I can move into something bigger I’m gonna get cats again, me and my ex used to breed British blues, I miss my babies so much
Good luck on the bets haz mate, put a quid on a 100/1 I got a feeling your gonna get lucky ?
20I had a go at the surveys and they’re a load of shit tbh getting the money is like blood from stone..
Fiver.com is pretty good from what I’ve seen, depending on your skill set. Basically you charge a fiver for a small service. a friend of mine makes some money in their spare time editing and proof reading people’s essays, not gonna make you rich a couple quid is a couple quid.
00t’s good that the true dark side is tolerated, just a little eye opening that this conversation face too face with ‘punters’ is easy to understand while here online on a forum where ‘punters’ don’t know me, have taken it personal with denial.No one is denying there is a dark side to gambling, thats a fact which everyone is aware of, and many as EightBlack has stated have experienced it.
The point everyone is trying to make is that it is pointless haranguing a lowly paid call centre worker for it – what will it achieve other than to make him feel a bit more depressed. I’m sure there are members of this forum who have worked in that environment and have taken shit on a daily basis for the actions of their employers.
If an individual is pissed off about gambling losses or the impact of the gambling business, write to someone who has power or influence, don’t take it out on some 19 year old lad who may have only started that day in the first job he has every had !
Your absolutly bang on here dune I worked in call centres for years on the phones and email support and the amount of people who give you a grilling for something fuck all within your control is uncountable, in fact I know many people who had to leave due to depression stemmed from the things people would say. One company was for loans, do you know how shit you feel when somebody blames you personally for having their possessions taken away? Or has lost their accommodation due to debts? I was just doing my job to avoid the same situation but those cunts still made my days longer.
Mr B.. You have done exactly that and blamed an innocent party for the faults of an entire industry… Now how do you know that person hasn’t been affected by suicide? Either lost a loved one or feeling like it himself, so for you to put the blame of destroyed families and suicide on him is nothing shy of disgusting.
20Really well done! What’s that app called it looks ideal? Ive relapsed really badly over the last couple of weeks and I can imagine having a visual timeline like that really helps.
Stay strong and admire your full bank account whenever you feel the urge, it looks so much better when it doesn’t start with a 0 ?
00The dark side of gambling is sitting in a dark room with no electric, no food, an exhausted supply of debtors and the memory of gambling more money than you own in a desperate attempt to save the situation you put yourself in, through gambling… In my experience anyway
00I dunno mate are you new? ?
Welcome man, it’s a quality little community here ?
01I don’t personally relate to any of the Bandits videos doesn’t stop me enjoying them, I can’t deposit a grand and play on 2quid and if he was depositing 20quid at a time and spinning on 20p like I do I’d find it boring as fuck
I really like the mega high stake videos personally
00It’s going to cause significant problems.. The old cunts who pass these laws have no idea what the internet is really like these days, it will cause them more problems than they think it will solve.
00I AM NEVER WRONG!
ALSO: You’re focusing on so many stupid things, no wonder you’re not getting anywhere! Holy.. It’s not that hard to stop derailing with stupid details that don’t really matter in the grand scheme of things, but even y’all in the comments here are derailing about stupid little things, and then complaining about the politicians doing the same. You’re buying into their way of tricking you.
This entire process is very straight forward, but politicians are trying to make you think it’s complicated. It’s not. Just stop sending your money to the EU and stop taking in immigrants. Show the EU the finger and voila, you’re out!
Goddamn there are too many stupid people in the world.
I voted leave and strongly believe brexit means brexit. I’ll be marching in London for that very point,
but it’s isn’t quite as simple as stop immigration and stop sending money as much as I wish it was
00Happy days man I was worried you where gonna get shafted, what a beast of a bonus! ?
00Yeh for me it is everything iv said just gets shot down
Because your chatting shit. You got the hump immediately and started insulting people and now can’t understand why your getting shit back!
Get fucked mate, are you genuinely old enough to be here?
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