I always just blame JB for everything, it just means I’ll owe him more beer 
We as a community should be supportive and if we aren’t then it’s best to leave those sort of posts to people that are. People always have lots going on and something which seems trivial to some will be world shattering to others. And if it’s off topic, it should have its own topic 
I personally find that if a story seems to be rubbish in my eyes I put a sarcastic dig in, and over the past month or so I’ve thought more about what I say because it doesn’t help at all.
If someone ever genuinely needs to talk, I’m always about on the twitter
I’ve not got much else to do while the Mrs is chucking up from 3am 
