Profile : Haz40

Winningbird wrote:

Do what my other half says to me. Your wages, you do what you want with them, but once they’re gone, don’t ask me for money. He pays all the bills, mortgage, and both car taxes but I pay my insurance. I work part time too. He does give me money for slots and bingo every now and again just so he can go on xbox in peace though, or if he wants me to go out and leave him to do some DIY. We have money for emergencies or house things, but not to spend on shit. That’s what my wage is for once daughter has everything she needs, that’s when it’s my turn to spend

 

Very similar wb ?. I suppose it is her money and she can do what she wants with it. I just don’t want her to lose what she works hard for. Plus i don’t want to be persuaded to go with her. Btw DIY are you sure that’s what your fella does when your out ? ??

Just Basics wrote:

Sorry to hear its got a bit outa control with the Mrs Haz.

My best advice would be for you both going to GA once a week mate. And get into the habit of setting money aside in a savings account together. Set goals for holidays n shit.

GA really did help me mate. I do reccomend you both give it a bash….and keep going.

Much love. Shit happens….youll get through it mate x

Thanks mate. Thing is I’m fine on my own long as I’m not online. Bit stupid yesterday though. That’s my mates pokerstars account and there is a $100 daily limit. As for the arcade it’s very rare i go on my own. It’s like now just come out tibshelf services on m1 change in bandit £50 up. I can do that and walk away. She can’t. She’s got a good heart and has registered and posted on here but not for ages that’s why only said now. Quite funny actually cos I’m sure bandit thought she was a bloke ha ha.?

Geezawin wrote:

Sorry to hear this haz  . u shouldnt blame yourself for introducing your wife to gambling i dont think that will help going forward and trying to find a solution . try and be strong mate . Dont let her beat you up about that (if she is ) we all know it can be easy just to blame others and not be accountable for our own actions

As an ex addict . you know yourself what the mrs is going thru and that exclusion is the only way

.What about your daughter dont know her age but if she is old enough to understand maybe she could help along with other family or friends maybe

What about a holliday or something she has always dreamed of as a target to help take her mind of gambling .

anyway haz if anyone can sort it im sure you can.  sure it will all be fine take care bud

 

Cheers mate. My stepdaughter is 27 and lives about 80 miles away. She knows but doesn’t know to what length the problem is. I don’t get stick off the missus cos she knows i won’t give her money to gamble with if she loses. She’s got that into her head now. Her only dream is making sure her daughter his happy. She even said this morning ” is it wrong I’m thinking of going back today ” i just shook my head at her. It’s a bit of nightmare tbh. I’ll sort it. I’ve accomplished bigger things in my life.

Thanks guys. Thing is for me I’m not even bothered about going in them. I’m self excluded from bingo and I’m going to do the same in the arcade. I rarely go in on my own and it doesn’t bother me if i don’t. Yes i could say no and i don’t have to put my own money in i know that but i know i can happily go into to town on my own and not go in. I know if i barr myself i can’t be dragged in so that’s the first thing I’m going to do. After that i don’t know.

Winningbird wrote:

You should keep your key in your wallet or on a chain around your neck.. well that’s what my other half says to me when I lose my vape hahaha. I lost my house keys this morning, so my daughter was 45 minutes late for nursery.. turns out I’d left them in the car somehow hopefully tomorrow you get double orders to make up for today

See it’s easily done. These people like malky just don’t know ?. Yeah I’m gonna have to graft tomorrow and with a poorly head at this rate lol.