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I think with some sites affliates receive a one off payment no matter how much you win or lose. Not sure on the other ones.
00Do what my other half says to me. Your wages, you do what you want with them, but once they’re gone, don’t ask me for money. He pays all the bills, mortgage, and both car taxes but I pay my insurance. I work part time too. He does give me money for slots and bingo every now and again just so he can go on xbox in peace though, or if he wants me to go out and leave him to do some DIY. We have money for emergencies or house things, but not to spend on shit. That’s what my wage is for
once daughter has everything she needs, that’s when it’s my turn to spend
Very similar wb ?. I suppose it is her money and she can do what she wants with it. I just don’t want her to lose what she works hard for. Plus i don’t want to be persuaded to go with her. Btw DIY are you sure that’s what your fella does when your out ? ??
10I think now is a good time to talk to her, the fact she asked if its wrong she wants to go back today means deep down she knows its getting out of control but also she was still looking for your permission to do so. Its probably given you a great opportunity to talk about it. Hope it all goes well and doesn’t end up as a full on barny.
Cheers mate it certainly won’t end up in a barny but yeah your right it needs sorting. I’m going to try and persuade her to self exclude. I’m going to do it anyway so hopefully she’ll follow suit. Thanks again for the great advice.
00Sorry to hear its got a bit outa control with the Mrs Haz.
My best advice would be for you both going to GA once a week mate. And get into the habit of setting money aside in a savings account together. Set goals for holidays n shit.
GA really did help me mate. I do reccomend you both give it a bash….and keep going.
Much love. Shit happens….youll get through it mate x
Thanks mate. Thing is I’m fine on my own long as I’m not online. Bit stupid yesterday though. That’s my mates pokerstars account and there is a $100 daily limit. As for the arcade it’s very rare i go on my own. It’s like now just come out tibshelf services on m1 change in bandit £50 up. I can do that and walk away. She can’t. She’s got a good heart and has registered and posted on here but not for ages that’s why only said now. Quite funny actually cos I’m sure bandit thought she was a bloke ha ha.?
00Only useful suggestion i could give would be to just not go in with her try and spin it for your own selfish reasons. That may sound bad but am guessing she knows you are not long off the gamban thing just try explain this isnt good for you to be jumping right back into it again. May be easier for her to stop aswel knowing that you are trying to aswell. May be a better angle to go at it rather than stepping the foot down telling her she cant go anymore. As a single male i would say stop being so soft and paying all the bills but that may be why am single haha
I’m back on gamstop for a year this time. Fortunately i did this after a win and not a loss. She does know this. I earn at least 4 times what she does so i have no problem sorting the bills out. I probably go in with her about a third of the time. The rest i either refuse to go or I’m at work. As for telling her not to go you haven’t met her lol. She doesn’t listen to me. ?
00Sorry to hear this haz . u shouldnt blame yourself for introducing your wife to gambling i dont think that will help going forward and trying to find a solution . try and be strong mate . Dont let her beat you up about that (if she is ) we all know it can be easy just to blame others and not be accountable for our own actions
As an ex addict . you know yourself what the mrs is going thru and that exclusion is the only way
.What about your daughter dont know her age but if she is old enough to understand maybe she could help along with other family or friends maybe
What about a holliday or something she has always dreamed of as a target to help take her mind of gambling .
anyway haz if anyone can sort it im sure you can. sure it will all be fine take care bud
Cheers mate. My stepdaughter is 27 and lives about 80 miles away. She knows but doesn’t know to what length the problem is. I don’t get stick off the missus cos she knows i won’t give her money to gamble with if she loses. She’s got that into her head now. Her only dream is making sure her daughter his happy. She even said this morning ” is it wrong I’m thinking of going back today ” i just shook my head at her. It’s a bit of nightmare tbh. I’ll sort it. I’ve accomplished bigger things in my life.
10All about talking to each other and breaking the habits , me n the wife split up because we were totally in the shit money wise , two good paying jobs and constantly overdrawn to the overdraft limit , no money fucks relationships , I gamble but only what I’m prepared to loss and it’s still difficult to not have a blow out now n again and wake up next morning thinking oh for fuck sake.you need to have a good talk and not end up splitting up etc as it’s shit
That pretty much sums it up. I do have a decent paid job and i know my own gambling is sometimes over the top but I’m nothing like i used to be. Your spot on though we are both in debt but come the end of the week there is still enough to enjoy the weekend but not enough to go blow hundreds. All the bills are always paid but been self employed I’m constantly worried. I work hard but it wouldn’t take much to put me in the shit.
00Thanks guys. Thing is for me I’m not even bothered about going in them. I’m self excluded from bingo and I’m going to do the same in the arcade. I rarely go in on my own and it doesn’t bother me if i don’t. Yes i could say no and i don’t have to put my own money in i know that but i know i can happily go into to town on my own and not go in. I know if i barr myself i can’t be dragged in so that’s the first thing I’m going to do. After that i don’t know.
00It’s criminal how quickly bonus buys can rinse £50 – £100 on min stake, shouldn’t be allowed in my opinion
Unfortunately it’s the way of the world now mate. These games are so volatile. Some are like a 1000x plus or fuck all.
00I’ve just been done twice on joker stars 10’s against ace king plus queens against kings 50 dollars each. Fill you boots mate.
00Well you sound philosophical about these sessions i don’t know whether that’s good or bad. ???
00You should keep your key in your wallet or on a chain around your neck.. well that’s what my other half says to me when I lose my vape hahaha. I lost my house keys this morning, so my daughter was 45 minutes late for nursery.. turns out I’d left them in the car somehow
hopefully tomorrow you get double orders to make up for today
See it’s easily done. These people like malky just don’t know ?. Yeah I’m gonna have to graft tomorrow and with a poorly head at this rate lol.
00At least the day had a good ending
you lost a lot of keys in past ?
Oh yes. Keys phones I’m a nightmare. Apparently I’m not old enough ( I’m 42) or trustworthy enough to have my own lol. ??
00Nice recovery mate ?. Don’t forget if your ever skint there’s a ten quid acca for you. Just say the word and it’s on.
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