Let’s all take a breath

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  • #71537
    ayma4quit WANTED $47
    Outlaw

    What’s happened to this forum??… I used to be an observer, occasional contributor, but lately it’s gone mental. I’m a laid back bloke but even I have flipped my lid recently (sorry again JB?)

    It used to be the place where you could get great advice and funny as fuck banter but it’s all gone a bit, don’t like to say toxic, but it’s like a fuckin gorilla chest beating exercise lately.

    Yes, I get the begging posts are bad…. But let’s not ridicule these poor fuckers for their desperation, Christ knows I’ve been there countless times. Show a bit of humility and simply offer advice instead of trying to look like a smart arse by ridiculing them and ending up looking like an utter twat. Not going to mince my words, that you AwesomeX

    Let’s all take a step back and get back to how it used to be, and still sometimes is.

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    #71541
    Biohazard WANTED $675
    Outlaw

    Unfortunately when we lose a toxic member of this community, we seem to gain another. Mr B got pummeled by the old ban hammer, and then joined awesomex.

    I find myself posting less and less here, solely because I cannot be arsed with the unnecessary drama, and I’m not alone. That is a great shame. I’m not leaving, and I’m still lurking even when I’m not posting, but come on guys, can we just lighten up please? Stop taking life so seriously.

    Finally, just be god damn sympathetic to those who choose this site as a forum to vent or express their emotion. You cannot prove that they are liars or beggars, so approach them gently. You don’t know them and you don’t know their circumstances. It’s absolutely abhorrent to abuse someone who is potentially in a very vulnerable position, when they are only here to share.

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    #71565
    ayma4quit WANTED $47
    Outlaw

    Biohazard wrote:

    Unfortunately when we lose a toxic member of this community, we seem to gain another. Mr B got pummeled by the old ban hammer, and then joined awesomex.

    I find myself posting less and less here, solely because I cannot be arsed with the unnecessary drama, and I’m not alone. That is a great shame. I’m not leaving, and I’m still lurking even when I’m not posting, but come on guys, can we just lighten up please? Stop taking life so seriously.

    Finally, just be god damn sympathetic to those who choose this site as a forum to vent or express their emotion. You cannot prove that they are liars or beggars, so approach them gently. You don’t know them and you don’t know their circumstances. It’s absolutely abhorrent to abuse someone who is potentially in a very vulnerable position, when they are only here to share.

    Hear hear….. You’ve been the voice of sense here since I joined mate,just hope we can get back on track

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    #71592
    Anonymous WANTED $483
    Inactive

    Alot of members here have their “Toxic” nature forced out of them, due to constant put downs and even more passive baiting.

    These members including myself and awesomex are good natured normally.

    We just defend ourselves alot more passionately than most.

    #71594
    Kingpab WANTED $149
    Outlaw

    I liked it at first. Christmas was great with the games bandit used to play. Like name the slot ( from a tiny picture).

    It was all good fun,

    These days Bandit’s give up on it, most the big talkers are gone & even Haz40 has taken a massive step back. If JB and Awsomex disappear then it’s probably good night.

     

    I’d like to think everyone will be back and things will start moving again but it doesn’t look good.

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    #71598
    Mickeyvondickey WANTED $181
    Outlaw

    I think we all need to hit the reset button and remember why we’re here. Healthy, respectful debate. Advice and support (Bandit included). Knowledge of how online casinos operate and slots play from forum users with a broader understanding on the subject. But more importantly, to have a fucking good laugh and form friendships they otherwise wouldn’t have.

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    #71599
    ayma4quit WANTED $47
    Outlaw

    Just Basics wrote:

    Alot of members here have their “Toxic” nature forced out of them, due to constant put downs and even more passive baiting.

    These members including myself and awesomex are good natured normally.

    We just defend ourselves alot more passionately than most.

    I’m all for passionate debate  but being downright cunty is a different matter. Awesomex wrote a “mock” begging post after the guy claiming to be suicidal posted yesterday.

    Yes, it was more than likely a begging post, but for fucks sake, just deal with it differently on the off chance that it was real. Wish him good luck, sign up to Gambian etc…. Just don’t write a post mocking him.

    And here’s the difference between you, JB, and Awesomex….. Once it was pointed out that you were out of order, you’d have taken a step back and reassessed and if you accepted the criticism, you would apologise and move on. Awesomex was never ever wrong in his opinion, and that is fuckin dangerous and highly toxic…..He defended his actions and no matter what was pointed out to him, the other person was always wrong.

    In a nutshell, and I’m not arse kissing here, people like you are what a forum needs, people like awesomex are what poisons a forum.

    Just my opinion, obviously

     

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    #71672
    Andymitzy WANTED $64
    Spectator

    I hardly post but what I do read is a lot of people who must constantly check the forum for a chance to have an argument. A lot of these people don’t even seem to gamble themselves but feel because they cause a few arguments a week on here they are special in some way… clearly nothing else better to do than argue and post bollocks then when they are the only ones that post think they own the place because grownup people won’t comment when it’s full of these people they are either kids or not well imo. U know who u are.

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    #71674
    Andymitzy WANTED $64
    Spectator

    Probably goodnight because these guys won’t be on to cause the bullshit that has gone on and will go on again? Do u not think if people like this left the adults would probably talk on here? That jb guy just seems not well he craves attention always talks about himself if he ain’t arguing. Even saying he’s leaving for a bit of drama to get some attention then I see him on here posting more shit an hour later lol these people can’t be well or they surely can’t be adults Jesus.

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    #71675
    stony WANTED $28
    Outlaw

    Andymitzy wrote:

    Probably goodnight because these guys won’t be on to cause the bullshit that has gone on and will go on again? Do u not think if people like this left the adults would probably talk on here? That jb guy just seems not well he craves attention always talks about himself if he ain’t arguing. Even saying he’s leaving for a bit of drama to get some attention then I see him on here posting more shit an hour later lol these people can’t be well or they surely can’t be adults Jesus.

    A voice of reason.

    #71679
    THEBARON WANTED $51
    Outlaw

    you have to take the good with the bad depends on what tickles ya trout really one mans banter may offend some well others will think its hilarious thats life though is int it i wouldent take things to seriously on here at the end of the day you will get the shit post and the good post same on all forums if it really bothers people my advice would be stopping coming on here if ya cant handle the heat get out the kitchen

    #71698
    Anonymous WANTED $483
    Inactive

    Andymitzy wrote:

    Probably goodnight because these guys won’t be on to cause the bullshit that has gone on and will go on again? Do u not think if people like this left the adults would probably talk on here? That jb guy just seems not well he craves attention always talks about himself if he ain’t arguing. Even saying he’s leaving for a bit of drama to get some attention then I see him on here posting more shit an hour later lol these people can’t be well or they surely can’t be adults Jesus.

    Think I’ve previously agreed many times b4 with every point you’ve made about me here. Ya not saying anything new whatsoever. You’ve brought absolutely nothing to the table besides a bait post.

    Think ya should go back lurking in the darkness r kid. Cos my light is far too bright for the likes of you.

    Shit effort pal.

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    #71746
    THEBARON WANTED $51
    Outlaw

    lmao JB

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    #71872
    Andymitzy WANTED $64
    Spectator

    ? I tried lol gotta say jb u did well ?

    #71874
    Andymitzy WANTED $64
    Spectator

    Although u did make another post talking about yourself I see haha good luck with that ??

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