Profile : Thisgirl2019

I think this subject is a sensitive one and needs to be approached with respect on all levels, everyone will have a different opinion on it no one is right or wrong and ultimately it’s Steve’s decision if he wants to mention it or not. However that being said, having personal experience on this subject..

Calling people mental isn’t acceptable. At all.

Eightblack wrote:

*summoning Thisgirl2019 for inside information of fail proof presents for women*

You called? ??

it’s hard to suggest physical gifts as I don’t really know what she would like!

I like things that have thought not just bought off a shelf so if you could think of a place like the website not in the high street.. you’ll see you can personalise something for her or something that’s a little different to the norm!

Hope she has a fab birthday and m sure you’ll be able to sort her something out! ??

1pstaker wrote:

Thisgirl2019 wrote:

Hi,

As some people will be aware I have a beautiful 3 year old girl who has autism.

We are both still learning how to cope with different triggers she has and it’s hard doing that and looking after her twin and 2 younger siblings on my own.

Id love to talk to someone who has experience in this as I still have so many questions and often ask myself if I’m doing the right thing in the hard times.

People who have no direct experience don’t understand that even leaving the house is a challenge for my little one, wind, rain, dirt, sounds, music, and so much more effect how she deals with the outside world.

I wouldn’t change her for anything and just want to learn how to help her and to be the best mum I can be.

Ps she’s just learnt to jump which is a massive milestone for her! The happiness is all that matters to me

Thanks for reading guys

Bry x

 

There will be a lot of trial and error with regard to triggers, at that age its difficult to know them and avoid them. I would be happy to talk to you about it, though not sure if I could put my email address here for you? (Can someone advise if thats ok?)  Also, google Contact A Family, they been a great help to us down the years and I am hopeful they will have a branch near you as they quite widespread. Have you spoken to anyone about schooling yet?

Yes she starts nursery for a couple of morning sessions in April and will be having 1 on 1 care, she has an Early years team involved! I’d love to talk about everything so if you could somehow contact me that would be great!

I wish you all the luck eightblack!

If all else fails you could always do party look a likes for jack sparrow ?

I’d say it wasn’t the best move to spend on a cruise when your homeless upon returning home.

I hope that this will sort itself out for you and you get back on your feet, but as above people have mentioned  although a car is not that comfy, it’s dry, and relatively safe rather than being on the actual streets which is a dangerous place to be at the moment.

Goodluck Yid

Steve is having an absolute nightmare with this casino at the moment!

Agreed what a beautiful pooch!

Welcome ??